Understanding Bowen Family Therapy and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Understanding Bowen Family Therapy and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

This video focuses on key principles such as differentiation of self, triangulation, emotional cutoffs, and multi-generational transmission process. Blake explains how these concepts are vital for understanding and managing dysfunctional family dynamics, particularly in the context of narcissistic abuse and emotionally immature parents.

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Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Family: Scapegoat Recovery Tip #1 – Strategies & Differentiation

Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Family: Scapegoat Recovery Tip #1 – Strategies & Differentiation

Master boundaries in narcissistic abuse recovery with Tip #1 from Blake Anderson, RSW. Learn differentiation, challenges with narcissists, practical enforcement, and resources like Boundaries book & Dr. Ramani.

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Insights in Navigating Dysfunctional Family Dynamics

Insights in Navigating Dysfunctional Family Dynamics

In this post and video I unpack the three frameworks I rely on most—Bowen Family Therapy, the Gottman Method, and Internal Family Systems—to show how differentiation, core emotions, and “inner parts” shape every family interaction. You’ll learn why couples get stuck in gridlock (think Gottman’s Four Horsemen), how to view narcissistic traits as an explanation rather than a label, and the role of radical acceptance and firm boundaries in protecting your peace. If you’re ready to deepen the work, an online course link is included for step-by-step tools and exercises.

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